In a nutshell, I can be the best friend you would ever have... I haven't decided if I'm ready to start a relationship. I suppose I will decide if Mr. Right happened along! I believe in karma, Golden Rule or whatever you want to call it. I've seen too many times bad karma comes back to haunt you and I don't want any part of it! I know regardless of what I'm after, I'm really over the games. I just wish people could be up front with you and tell you they're not interested. SO many times people lead you on and set up a meeting. Then they fall off the face of earth! If they would have been honest to begin with, they wouldn't have created their self bad karma now would they?!?! I wouldn't consider myself superficial but let's face it, there has to be a little bit of physical attraction when you're staring them in the face while you're doing the somethin somethin! I do prefer him to be close to my age and same ethnic background. Another requirement is a job and transportation. I'm not a taxi and I'm not into being baby daddy.