when I get down with a guy-- I don't care how long it takes to come about--I take it seriously. I want there to be such a connection between us, straight in the eyes contact, that the fuck session takes on a life of its own and we actually forget who and where we are. I love kissing, licking, tongue action, tit pinching, crotch grinding warm up to dick sucking, ball licking and mutual ass eating. We should be so pumped and primed by the time a dick slides in a hole that both have achieved a higher level of intense extacy!!