I am looking for a top who likes a fem in bed. You would not know it in person I like to be treated that way. I am very discreet. I like wear silk nighties, panties, and bras for my man. I have man boobs as they say so yes I can fit into a bra. So yes that means I am a big guy, I have had a the lap-band surgery but its a very slow process loosing weight. You do burn a lot of calories during sex though, so please have a high sex drive. I am bi. I am very much into oral, 100% bottom, rimming, will swallow for the right guy, facials, passionate kissing and so on, no water sports or scat though! I am 35 y/o, have red hair and hazel eyes...