I'm a chill, down to earth kinda guy in Manhattan, KS. I'm definitely very masculine (no limp wrists or lisps here) and I'm in the closet and don't feel the need to be out. I would like to find a guy that would be my buddy in public and my boyfriend in private. It's not that I'm ashamed or scared, but I feel that it could make things complicated with family and I don't want that. Still, in the end I know I'm gay and would definitely like to have someone to hold onto at night.