27 Sharon
6’3’’ black blue 200 8c
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My name is Tristan! I am 28, 6'3'', have dark brown hair (sometimes it's black, and sometimes it's blonde), and baby blue eyes! I am originally from Pittsburgh, PA, but currently reside in Sharon, PA. I am looking forward to moving back to the city in the very near future. I'm self employed and financially stable. I own a few businesses: web / graphic design, business consultation, marketing / advertising, body jewelry, gift retail, and handmade candles / bath & body products. I am college educated (marketing/advertising, business administration).

I just got out of a 6 year relationship, and am getting ready to start the next chapter in my life. We gave it a few tries throughout the span of our relationship, and no matter how we tried to make it work, we just both wanted things that neither of us were ever going to make work. I have no hard feelings or regrets, and will always cherish the time that we had together. I wish him the best and he does the same. Relationships with unrealistic expectations lead to resentment...

I'm probably one of the most genuine and down to earth people you will ever meet. In my ripe old age, I've become a lot more of a homebody than I used to be. I tend to bury myself in my work, because if I don’t do it myself, who else is going to? I used to go clubbing all the time, but I haven't been on in years, though it is something that I feel needs to be revisited.

There are definitely a lot of things changing in my life and I am looking to a new beginning and chapter in my life. I'm re-evaluating things that I'm not happy about and continuing to improve on all the other aspects. If there are any other things you would like to know about me feel free to ask. My life is an open book.......

What am I looking for? As far as friends go, my friends are my family. If I let you into my inner-circle, take pride in it. I am very good to my friends, and my friends reciprocate in kind. I'm just looking for people who aren't fake, or into things that I'm not. A friend is a friend... just be cool with me, and I'll be the greatest friend you will ever have. Basically, I just want some fun people to kick it with. "A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart, and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words."

As far as boyfriend/relationship material goes... that is something that I'm really strong on. After spending the last 6 years in a relationship that did not meet nearly all of my expectations, I want to be sure that when I dive into the waters again, I don't get stuck in another "Bad Romance."

I want to find someone who is my intellectual equal, able to talk about any subject without getting bored. I want someone who is passionate about not only me, but about life. I am very outgoing, so it would help to find someone who can enjoy quiet nights at home, but also like to go out occasionally and find some kind of culture. I'd like to find someone who can look at me and know what's on my mind. It’d be nice to find someone with a romantic side. Someone who will walk up behind me without warning and hold on tight… whispering in my ear just how much I mean to them.

I definitely need someone who is independent and financially stable enough to take care of themselves. Out of all the serious relationships I’ve been in, not one ever had the means to take care of himself, let alone take care of me. I'm not materialistic, but getting a gift out of the blue would be a welcomed surprise. Just like hearing a random compliment would put a smile on my face. Basically someone that at least acknowledges that I'm in the room!

I want someone who can make me laugh. I have a wicked sarcastic, and often times improper sense of humor. I love cooking! So hopefully I can find someone with a healthy appetite and enjoys trying new cuisines. Communication is a big key! That was seriously lacking in my previous relationship, and was one of the major downfalls. If there is a problem, I'd expect them to address it, not let it fester for years and years.

I have a crazy sex drive! Sexual intimacy is a big one as well. I don't expect to get it on every second of the day, but without that closeness and bond between two people, you might as well be roommates.

I want to be with someone who has a brain, aspirations, and goals in life. Someone who looks just as sexy dressed to the 9's as they do lounging around the house, or completely naked. Other traits would include respect, trust, supportive, honest, accountable for ones actions. If you want to be a passenger in this ride of life, move along. You need to have a strong drive to keep up with me!

My Type: Trying to fit someone into a mold isn't really my style... but certainly someone in my age range... between 22-35ish... but that can change depending on the person. I typically go for guys who are smaller (height/weight) than I am. I like guys who have a good head on their shoulders... who are hard working, creative, and/or artistic. Jock, Skaters, and/or Dorky guys seem to be my style.

My Turn-Ons: A nice guy in a pair of basketball shorts, boxers, no show socks, skater shoes... YEAH!

My Turn-Offs: Guys who are self-centered, unmotivated, lazy, needy, scrubs, jobless, putting friends before their relationship, uncaring, close-minded. Side Note: If you get messaged hello, and you quickly block or ignore, get the fuck over yourself. Furthermore, a simple hello isn’t an immediate invitation to fuck.

I'm not a very religious person. I don't agree with organized religion, because of their feelings toward the gays, but I truly don't think God is going to condemn me to hell just for loving another human being, and it's not like I can change the way I am.

I'm very liberal minded... I know now-a-days that is seen as a bad thing, but that's life!

Interests: Cooking, Entertaining, Gardening, Entertaining Friends, Partying, Traveling, Business, Coffee, Shopping

Television: Will & Grace, Roseanne, Queer as Folk, Family Guy, Breaking Bad, Kitchen Nightmares, The Amazing Race, Top Chef, United States of Tara, Community, Weeds, Modern Family, Nurse Jackie, Kitchen Nightmares, Glee, 30 Rock, Hell's Kitchen, The Apprentice, The Daily Show, The Office, The Colbert Report, The Practice, ER

Music: Lady Gaga, Pink, Pat Benatar, 80's, Stacie Orrico, Madonna, Jason Mraz, Cher, Cyndi Lauper, Christina Aguilera, Michael Buble, Jay-Z, Train, Stacie Orrico, Prince, Green Day, Blondie, Stevie Nicks, Everclear, Blink-182, Kelly Clarkson

People I Look Up To: Donald J. Trump, Martha Stewart, Oprah Winfrey, Gordon Ramsey, Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Warren Buffett, Michael Bloomberg, Larry Page, Sergey Brin, Tony Hsieh, Jeff Bezos

Favorite Quotes:

"Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality."

"Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies!"

“All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams with open eyes, to make it possible.”

"What I am Michael is a 32 year-old, ugly, pock marked Jew fairy, and if it takes me a little while to pull myself together, and if I smoke a little grass before I get up the nerve to show my face to the world, it's nobody's god damned business but my own. And how are you this evening? "

"Success is my only motherfucking option, failure's not..."

"I learned this, at least, by my experiment that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours."

Ya know, the older I get, the more and more I realize that you have to have so many other qualities than just a cute face. You're not always going to have that cute youthful face and you're going to need those other things to back yourself up later in life.

If you want to know more, hit me up! And PLEASE, keep in mind if you want to be added to my list and then you don't make any attempt of keeping in touch YOU WILL BE REMOVED :) I am not here to see how many pretty faces I can obtain in my list of friends. I'd like to keep it more intimate where I actually know the names of everyone on my list. Does that make me sound like an asshole? Because I'm really not! ! ! SO GET AT ME!