Womanizer or Maneater!!!..?

I'm incredible, so unforgettable, so no one can take my place I'm unbreakable, highly flammable, I'm your pretty little problem,because, I'm stuck inside your memory, that's why it's so hard to get rid of me hey ain't my fault the boys keep followin' if you were better they wouldn't be wondering!! I'm everything that you ever wanted to be :) I'm the object of all your desire I'm that dream in your head when you're sleepin' I'm that secret inside that you're keepin'