To enjoy life in a more profound and meaningful way is the question...to co-exist and learn from one another...be happy, successful, LOVING, romantic, masculine, in shape, able to hold a deep and stimulating conversation as well as a light one(diverse/versatile), the right choice of words could be very sensual, charismatic, trendy and educated as I am. Most Importantly, however, he must know how to be great at being himself!!!--or at least to learn how to work at it... adventurous sex, w/no question, is important, but everything should be a balance with the above mentioned in order for anything, with anybody, to survive and succeed....any real guys who are willing to give something a chance and if you feel that the right time, has arrived and ready for more than just sex, to make it right for you and I? if you do, lets give it a try....