Should it be so hard to find a genuinely good guy that is attractive, usually masculine, who knows how to effectively and properly use the English language, and takes care of himself even just a little bit? It shouldn't be, but I've yet to find that anywhere. Is it possible to find a guy who is (at least mostly) emotionally intact, who isn't so clingy that he NEEDS to talk to you at all waking hours, and who doesn't get too attached too quickly? Over 35? No thanks. I don't think it's possible, but if you are that man and can prove me wrong, then you might just be my dream guy.