PLAYboi2008

cHECK ME OUT AT.. add me !! I wish I could outline what I'm looking for in a man but I can only be general. Intelligence of any kind, a sense of humor, honesty, trust, the ability to play like a kid, relaxed, happy, comfortable with being himself, gregarious with others, charitable and able to compromise. Having said that, I will accept a mixture of those attributes. Just be happy with who you are (gay and otherwise). I know that can contradict being closeted but there are many reasons to make a decision and I don't live in your shoes. I want to base how I feel on who you are. I don't need perfect, if I needed perfect I'd be forever lonely and bitter. I can tell you more about who I am because I know myself best. So if you'd like to know about me and where I might fit with you, then ask me whatever you want. I don't have many taboo subjects. I can't lay down the law here about a relationship because it's different everytime. Each time it can be just as fun and meaningful but different. It's never too late to feel that way again and I don't regret feeling that way in the past. I prefer to like you for what you are than what I can make you be. If you're happy with me being me and I'm happy with you being you. . .then it's perfect. Compromise: sometimes we can both be happy when we meet in the middle. Once in awhile I get a taste of love. Someone that holds me and says the right things. We love one another all we can. I've learned to keep those moments as fresh in my heart as possible. The one thing time cannot dull is my ability to remember love. . .but I search endlessly for the love that will outlast time. I try to do right all the time. Sometimes I stumble. . .and I'm sorry, I really am. I've hurt people by not thinking about them before myself. But do know that I try, I just want you to try as well. There are greater rewards out there if you just work at it some. . . . If you say it, mean it, if you mean it, say it. If I say it, you know it's what I mean. Life is too short for anyone to have a book of translations handy. Once you have my heart, you have it. Don't make me ask for it back. I gave it for a reason. Whatever you want to know, just ask. I'm not always shy. I've been happy on my own before, and I can be happy on my own. Unless you are complete alone, you can't expect someone else to complete you. We will hopefully SHARE our life together, not give them up to be together. VERY simple: Learn to love the trip with occasional detours. Don't refuse detours but know how to stay on the road most of the time. "He that cannot forgive others, breaks the bridge over which he himself must pass if he would ever reach heaven for everyone has need to be forgiven."-- Lord Herbert Found