**fALLING iN lOVE**

I really want a guy who acts like a guy, but who is obviously gay. Someone who's not afraid to tell me they love me, and make me happy while I return the same words. It's important that my man loves his mother and his family, since this tends to be the way significant others are treated. I'd like for him to be a little dorky, not afraid to be himself, and lets me be a dork too! But he also knows when and how to be serious, and he knows how to be SEXUAL! Possibly the ability to REALLY turn me on! Also, I want the man who wants to make love with me, not sex. I NEED a man who's not afraid to love me, kiss me, and hold my hand when we're out in public. Someone who's proud to call me theirs. I've been through a lot of pain dating boys that aren't willing to share our relationship with anyone, and I won't do it again... If you're not "out of the closet," then STAY AWAY! I'm the kinda guy who would picket for gay rights in front of the Capital, and if you're not cool with that then I'm not cool with you! Education is really important to me. I'm currently in a Masters Program, and my PHD will begin immediately after finishing my Masters. Although money isn't the most important thing in my life, I plan on making a lot of money some day. I wouldn't mind my guy making more. I'd love to starve and live pay check to pay check for a few years, until we can REALLY start our lives together! Also, I'm not high maintenance, but I wouldn't mind a guy who IS! Someone I can spoil and pamper for the rest of my life. I also want a guy who's not afraid to grow old with me, where age is completely irrelevant.