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ME:
My name is Phil, from Dubuque Iowa (Tri-State
Area). I am a chubby guy who working on getting in
shape, but that takes time. Id like to think that
my weight has nothing to do with what others think
of me, but its a sad fact that it does in many
others eyes. All i have to say is that I am who I
am and that is all that should matter.
FRIENDS:
Friends are always needed, and my goal is
really to find someone with whom I can envision
having a long-term relationship. benefits in a
friendship is always a plus and yes, i would love
to have a friend who can come by once or twice a
week to hang out and have fun. I do not have a
problem with just being friends with someone, but
be warned: If it steps over the line and benefits
get added to it that i will not be ok with
stopping the benefits. Also, i will not tolerate
being a one night trick. If its going to happen i
want it to happen more than once. I also do not
want a friend that is all about sex only, and that
being the only reason why he comes over. In other
words, be a friend, don't just come see me for sex
then leave. Hang out with me, do stuff, before and
after. Hell, we don't even have to have sex every
time. Friends are life, and life is all about
happiness...
RELATIONSHIPS:
My goal is really to find someone with whom I
can envision having a long-term relationship with.
I prefer guys who have all the qualities that make
a loving relationship. Honesty, Trust, Love, Care,
Dedication, Communication. I would love the type
of guy that leaves me cute text messages. Whom is
willing and comfortable with kissing me in front
of mine and his friends. Someone who will trust me
over everyone else, as i do with him. Its always
nice to use comments like telling me i look hot,
or attractive, as i always do with the guy im
with. I want to be included in all the things he
does, and i will do the same with him. I
understand love takes time, and i have alot of
time and love to give.
I take more of the female role emotionally, but
I still am a guy. I act and dress masculine. This
means that I would like a guy that masculine in
appearance and emotion. i want a man. This guy
should be at least 18 years of age, and no more
than 30. Sorry guys, im looking for someone my
age, not a father or suger daddy.This guys should
also be under 200 lbs or be at least height weight
proportionate. He can be stick thin, or athletic,
doesn't matter to me at all.

ATTRACTION:
I love the Twink, Punk, Skater, Raver, Badboy
looks the most and are my top turn on's. Obviously
looks do not make the final decision, so at least
contact me before thinking i wont like you.
Turn ons:
- Treasure-happy trails.
- Smooth body.
- An active personality.
- A guy knowing what he wants, and goes for
it.
- A guy who can take a male role in a
relationship.
- Unexpected actions/comments/etc.
Turn offs:
- Long hair.
- Facial hair.
- Someone who is a dead lay.
- Grandmother kisses. - If your going to kiss
me, make it blow my shoes off. litterly.
MISC:
As with Alcohol and Drugs. Let me put it this
way. if the first thing you do in the morning is
smoke it up, pop the pill, or drink a bottle. Then
you can just leave... Cause i wont tolerate that
at all. don't get me wrong, I have no problem with
drinking or CERTAIN drugs.. I myself like to get
drunk at times. Id prefer the other guy to have
fun with me, not with the bottle and/or pill. So
don't be drunk around me more than 1/4 of the
day..
Anyways.. :D contact me ... or not *cries*
