Hi. I'm Josh. I'm looking for a possible boyfriend

I'm incredibly loyal to my friends, as they tend to be the most important people in my life. My honor is incredibly important. I tend to be more introverted, and I enjoy intellectual pursuits. I'm hardworking, but fun-loving. My faith is incredibly important to me, but I am in no way a religious fanatic. I tend to be pretty quiet at first and somewhat sarcastic (usually that means that I like you). However, I am always willing to listen to others problems. I tend to be empathic and internalize others' feelings. Turn ons (no particular order): Firm handshake, Gentle hugs, Passionate kiss, Beautiful eyes, Slim/Slight definition, Intelligence, Confidence, Personality, Desire to have an actual (committed) relationship, Guitars (or other musical talent), Good with my friends (and make an effort to include me in their group of friends), Willingness for some personal time, Passion (for life and activities they're involved in), Turn offs (no particular order): (Excessive) Flamboyance, Ultra-macho/feminine guys, Hypocrisy, Tattoos (never really a big fan), Piercings (multiple per ear/piercings elsewhere), Immaturity, Stupidity, Arrogance (I can deal with some as I joke about being arrogant), Desire to only have sex (as opposed to a relationship), Disloyalty, Dishonesty, Closeted guys (don't want to feel like I have to sneak around), Smoking, Drugs, Drinking (I can deal with some (i.e. not putting either us in danger, doing responsibly in general, keeping it to a minimum around me), but I personally don't drink), Excessive age difference (you may be a great guy, but I want someone at a similar point in their life), General unhappiness with life (don't want anyone who's going to drag me down with their depression), Obesity, Total indifference for the suffering of others Sorry if this seems a bit much (more likely to come, but what do I stand to gain if I don't look for my preferences).