One line of a song goes, “my life is an open book, for the whole world to read..”.. So, I guess it’s better to just lay down everything here to save your or my time from redundant conversations.  And I’ve always been told that honesty is the best policy, so I’d rather be open to everything u want to know cause I don’t want and don’t have to pretend that I’m someone else…

Let me start with the physical features.. I am 36 y.o., 5’6, 140 lbs, 30 waist, and a Filipino-American (Pacific Islander/Asian by race/ethnicity).. 

If u don’t feel like reading past this line, then I’m assuming you’re one of those people who are interested only in the physical attributes of a person and nothing further.  However, if u want to know more, then here it is…

I’m with the US Army, I love what I do, and I don’t have regrets doing it.  A matter of fact, it’s the primary reason why my wife left me because I was always gone for a long time serving this country. (And yeah, u read it right, I was married to a woman I once loved).  I’ve been thru a messy divorce, although my ex-wife and I are now civil to each other.  I know this is a turn-off for a lot of guys, but that’s part of my past and I can’t deny that. 

I consider myself a traveler.  I travel whenever I can.  I can probably say I’ve been to more places than most guys here.  I’ve been to at least half of the 50 US states, been to Canada, Mexico, Philippines, Malaysia, Taiwan, Bahrain, England, Italy, Austria, France, Switzerland, Germany, Ireland, Belgium and Liechtenstein.   And if I have to include overseas deployment, then I have to add Kuwait and Iraq on the list.  For the most part, I traveled by myself.  It’s nice seeing different places, experiencing different cultures, meeting different kinds of people.  But at the end of the day, I still go back home finding myself alone.  Sometimes, I just can’t help but wish that I have someone who would explore the world with me.

I love the outdoors more than clubs and bars.  In fact, I have never been to any gay bar as I’m not into the gay scene, so to speak (although I’m not saying here that I’m against those who go to such places, for me it’s just a matter of preference).  You can always call on me when it comes to any outdoor activities.  I’ve done skydiving, mountain trekking and hiking, wall and rock climbing and rappelling, camping, just to name some.  I also like to run, and I’m into sports.  I run 3-5 miles everyday, five days a week.  I play tennis, and I also work out regularly.  And this may sound inconsistent to all the activities mentioned, but at the same time, I just like to stay at home, read books and novels, watch movies or just listen to music.  And speaking of music, I don’t have a specific genre as I like all kinds, be it country, rock, pop, r&b, hip-hop, rap, gospel and some oldies. 

And if u have just finished reading up to this part, I commend u cause you’re one of the few who see beyond looks, and are really interested in knowing the person for who he really is.  And I can honestly say I'm a person who cares, who loves, who feels, who understands, and who gives it my all…

So I’m here in this site trying to meet guys out there.  When it comes to meeting someone, I'm at a juncture in my life... don't know who I really want to meet anymore, when, where or how.... I just don’t like stereotypes... and life is all circumstantial it seems.  The person I'm meant to be with, I will meet, and if I don't meet someone, it wasn't meant to be.  Most important thing to note though is that I try to live my life respecting people for all of who they are.  To see the inner beauty, and to acknowledge the human person that exists within all of us.  I don't like to fall in love with the exterior walls that we all tend to put up, but the true and genuine part of an individual.  I want to meet someone whom I can be weak with, but also to know that they know they can be weak with me.  I'm an intellectual to some degree, also laid back too, but wouldn't mind meeting someone with a brain and a sense of humor to match.  I'm a physically active person and would love to meet people who wouldn't mind doing outdoor activities every now and then.  Looking for friends, or whatever, or come what may… just hate to be in a position where I am seen on the outside and not for who and what I really am…