SEP 15 Updated Profile

Updated 16 SEPTEMBER: I have to get something off my chest and maybe SOME of you can relate as some of you have said from your emails. I get my share of complinents as do a lot of you guys. But surely you have to realize, like i have, that the guys who like you on line do so based on looks/body. I mean come on, ask yourself the simple question. IF you are one of the HOT guys (and I'm NOT implying I am) in the chat room and you got in a car accident and messed up your face or body permanantly, don't u realize 99.9% of these guys would drop you in a heartbeat?? Of course they would, you may be a cool person, but they only like someone as long as that person is good looking or has a nice body. So STOP fooling yoruself guys! Thisis one reason why the gay world is very fake and ultimately unhappy in one's soul. What i am looking for is the OPPOSITE of that, k? That .1 % that at least in theory exists, that REAL person that is there for you no matter what happens in life. And here's another question for you guys, with soooo many gay/bi guys coming out and so0000 many on-line dating sites why are so many gay guys alone at home with their "hand"? Even the hotties have no one to hold them at night, share life with, have fun, go places, talk on the phone, or have someone to be there for them. It's all a pretend friendhsip or relationship on line. Again, im looking for the OPPOSITE of that, someone local to call a REAL friend, to have fun not just under the sheets, but also with the other things that life has to offer, and possibly my first b/f if that's where it goes. And I've heard form other experinced gay guys that when guys get lucky and find someone, it doesn't last long, there seems to be no loyalty and stability in the gay/bi world. On-line dating sites are both a blessing and a curse. So many guys are now available to each other to meet, that's great! But TOO many guys talk about love yet look for the guys that fit them like a glove. TOO many guys use these sites like a JCPenny catalog, "shopping" to get their perfect hot guy to buddy them or talk to on-line, yet one day they realize the on-line shallow chat and popularity is not really a valuable thing and time goes on and they continue to lack the happiness they originally sought to find. And many are lonely because the perect guy doesn't come along, or if he does, then that "perfect guy" isn't into him back, so the cycle repeats itself over and over, and no one wins, no one is happy. Guess wat guys, try "settling" for someone that may not be perfect or exactly wat u want, and maybe u might discover wat real love is all about! Gay guys need to get out and have some fun with other guys (not just sex), take the time to get to know them, shut your man-shopping computer down and enjoy wat you got and live life! This ain't rocket science guys! Isn't someone to care for you and someone to care about better than your one nite stands or your loneliness? -------------------------------------------------- ------- Well, i'm seeing if there are any energetic and cool gay or bi guys out there for either fun, a date, or actual "hanging out" friends or perhaps even a relationship if the chemistry is right. I'm up for anything that is positive and fun, just be honest if all you are looking for is some hot fun. But I have to add that a b/f is preferable at this point, as I have had a lot of fun these last couple years I've been into this and can honestly say that the times i spent with the hotties is fun for the moment, but ultimately leaves me wanting something more, and the super hot guys never have the carachter for long term relationships, and therefore I end up feeling satisfied for the moment, but ultimately feeling void:/ I don't need a hot "trophy" b/f, I need a trophy good person. If you aren't mature enough to understand what I mean by that then we prolly aren't compatible. I wud trade the hot fun for a truly decent guy ANY DAY! -------------------------------------------------- ---- Ideally (but not a show stopper) I'm looking for someone that i can have straight guy fun with, talk to about anything, and feel comfortable but yet excited to be around when we are alone. Someone to share the good times in life with and make them twice as fun, and to be there for the lows in life to make them feel half as bad. Please no drama-queens or game players, life is too short, I prefer my games to be on the basketball court. -------------------------------------------------- --- Physically I like slim or athletic smooth or fairly smooth White or sometimes Asian or Latino guys 18-35. I'm laid back, easy goin, sensitive masc discrete white guy (i know, masc and sensitive are usually not used in the same sentence, lol) so just hit me up if u wanna chat and see what happens, peeps say im very easy to talk to so don't worry about being shy or just BI-CURIOUS, it's all good. Can swap pics (no nudes please, have some imagination, k?) on AIM or Yahoo as well. Aight, hope to hear from some of you guys -pEaCe