It is what it is.

First let me say get involved, vote, volunteer, and help make a CHANGE! OBAMA! So this is where I sell myself huh? Well, forget it I'm not here to sell myself. Some facts about me..... I don't smoke or do drugs. I drink socially. I'm professional, I have a great sense of humor, and I'm told I'm brutally honest. I'm a total romantic. I try to help change peoples perceptions of what some may think or assume of gay people. I am totally OUT. I want more than a BF I want a partner for life. I am faithful and expect total commitment. I come online out of a small hope that I just might find the right guy. Random things about myself.... I put one hand on my crotch when I drive I don't know why, I just do. I stick my tongue out a lot it's one of those teasing flirting things I do. I like the song "Say" by John Mayer. Sometimes we don't say what we really should out of fear or not taking a chance. Life is short "say what you want to say." Listen to the song. Wanna know more? Ask. As for what I'm looking for.... Online is where we meet but get off your butt and meet in person if we like each other. I want to meet someone NORMAL, someone with a job, HONEST, committed (not to the mental hospital), has goals, fun, nice, healthy, funny (or laughs at my jokes), caring, someone that wants a real relationship, and someone that knows how to compromise. I want a real happy relationship that does not involve the internet. Once I find the guy or he finds me I hope he and I never chat online again. Most of my straight married friends and family members don't chat online, why would I? I get tired of people that are all talk. Actions speak louder than words. I'm looking for someone that is happy and wants to be even happier because he and I are together. I've met some great guys and I've met..... others. Haha. I don't want to hear "I'm not like everyone else" or "I'm different." Prove it! If you are happy in a relationship why are you online? Its a starting point to meet but give it up when you're ready for commitment. I'm not waiting for the next best thing. When I find what I want I go for it. Don't look for someone you can live with. Look for someone you cannot live without.