SGWM...looking for late evening fun now and then, with a fella, who is intregrated with his sexuality, that is mature emotionally, who can be himself, and doesn't have, to have a bunch of superficalness to set himself apart from others. This MAN, doesen't need to have to describe himself as GL or VGL , even if he thinks or has been told he is( btw, them that do need to describe there physical looks in such manner have been generally a complete turn off, as it's usually just about them, and not share completely only to recieve and not give ). Such a MAN i seek is sober, healthy, have a sensual side, has ability to be independent if needed, embrace their god-given sexuality in terms of celebration and not condemnation. Give and recieve, freely and willingly.