disingenuosity is the spice of life

Well. I'll be honest, I'm hard to get to know. I'm not terribly good at opening up, but I'm working on it. Its all a giant work in progress. I Like someone who isn't all about sex. I am SO tired of men who just want to charm you and get in your pants. Yes sex is fine and dandy, but I want more than that. So yeah, I'm "picky" but I think a certain degree of that is wise! and since we're being honest, Im a bit of a slob, not like OMG TRAILOR TRASH but more like i dont always put my shoes away, and I hardly ever make the bed. SO if youre one of those OCD tidy types, sorry. I like music, no I love it. If Im awake, Im listning to music, I dont even care whats playing but there better be music. Im looking for someone on a level above physical attraction, Im looking for someone who is easy to talk to, someone who is funny, someone who is honest about their feelings, because I feel I am all of these things. I have a dog, his name is Charlie, hes a Minpin/Chihuahua mix, and Until I meet you mr. right, hes keeping your side of the bed warm ) I'm a pretty indoorsy type of guy, but I do like to go out to the occasional bar or club. Se7en is a pretty cool bar. Not into the 'scene' whatever that may be. I like quiet coffee shops and art shows where i feel out of place, but at least the company isn't sweating or puking all over me. :) Im also a fan of just walking downtown by the river (preferably at night when its not 900 degrees outside)